All single person have atleast one thing in common, they want to go for a date with their dream girls at one point of time. “How does the dating phenomenon occur?”
Is it that Mother Nature intended for us to find our soul mates so that we can reproduce children? Who knows for sure? All we know is a boy meets a girl. The girl meets the boy. The boy and the girls like each other. Or the boy likes the girl.
The girl does not like the boy. The boy chases the girl. The girl breaks the boy’s heart. The boy leaves in despair or vice versa. As anyone can see dating has its definite ups and downs, but they are all direct to one objective: the discovery of long lasting eternal love.
Eternal love is a grand thing no doubt, but trying to find it can have a painful sting. This sting gives a frustrating process where individuals read books about dating and still do not get it. Otherwise, we end up going to our friends in grief and despair. For girls, we either stuff our faces with a carton of rich deluxe chocolate chip or we watch a tape of French Kiss where we end up crying our eyes out over men. While men who can’t even understand anything about the needs of a woman, they find some other way to vent their frustration, such as running a mile or punching a punching bag. What causes this crazy frustration? The simple fact that men and women are plainly two different species that cannot coexist. However, that’s not the only thing that causes the “sting” in dating.
Dating is also the “Games of Love” being played between men and women. These “games” give the most emotional hurtful sting that brings quite a wound to the heart. One of the games is the “Calling Game.” Women often ask, “Should I call him? Should I not? If I do not call him, I will start the chase and he will be more interested in me. If I do, he thinks I’m a possessive girl trying to ‘chase him. Oh, what move in the game should I play?” Another game is the “Kissing Game.” The questions most commonly asked are: Should I make a move now? When should I make it? When do I let him or her kiss me? Those are few examples of the “Games of Love,” which should be really be called “The Play of Emotions – a play most likely to get burned in.” So, what’s the point in getting us burned in this troublesome dating phenomenon? Well to start out, there aren’t all negative parts in dating, and people date to find love and their soul mate to share their lives with them on earth, the process can get very exciting and fun. For instance, the girl gets ready to meet her date. She is in her new beautiful, red, faltering dress. The boy is at the door with flowers. The girl gets all nervous and excited while she quickly checks in the mirror, makes final touch-ups, and opens the door with a gleaming smile towards her ate. She and her date drive to a movie and share a hopefully interesting conversation. They have a fun time hopefully as they “accidentally” brushed each other’s hands. The excitement begins when they go through the different stages of dating: attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity, intimacy, and engagement. When we find the right mate, we end up rejoicing for the discovery of love.
When we finally find the right person to spend the rest of our lives with, we discover all the other experiences help us find the love where we can trust, love, comfort, and nurture each other. We can give and receive the needs in our lives. Through the dating phenomenon, we soon discover the necessity of it: the discovery of lasting eternal love for another. We discover how special each person is and how each person can make another happy. We discover a certain peace, contentment, and pure joy. So, why do people continue on with this crazy phenomenon? Perhaps, they hope for Aphrodite to grant their wish of true love.